CHILDREN WILL RULE OVER YOU = ZOMBIE COPS IN CHILD EGO STATE
(You didn't think he meant literal children, did you?)
CHILDREN WILL RULE OVER YOU = ZOMBIE COPS IN CHILD EGO STATE
(You didn't think he meant literal children, did you?)
Nevertheless, in all these examples…
The important thing you are trying to accomplish is to shoe-horn in the adult by making him think about this and other oaths (like marriage vows) and why this particular oath is seemingly not as important to him. The longer he must think adult thoughts the more difficulty the child ego will have of returning. Unfortunately, any strong emotion can swiftly turn the tide back to the child. You wont win him over with logic. This is not about logic, this is about pain. He wants to go back to “normal” and you are preventing him by your disruptive psychic words. You are dehypnotizing him and it hurts.
You can’t fix him; at least I can’t, maybe you can. I don’t have that level of savviness. This is just the equivalent of a simple Jedi mind trick. No doubt it takes practice. Practicing on cops is dangerous (and scary if you are not solidly in the adult ego state almost all your days – you have to work on yourself first). But to practice you don’t have to use cops as your training partner. Try someone else. Try another profession and work your way up to the big boys.
Once you know how to push a zombie’s buttons, like any critter, they will remember. Ed the Christian tries to avoid being in the same room as me – especially alone. He fears me. He fears me because he remembers that I can bring out pain although I never touched him. The same phenomenon will occur with a cop. Once he associates your face with the pain you bring he will not want to deal with you in any way. Is that a good thing? I think it is an excellent thing. People often walk certain paths in order to avoid the thorns and thistles. They don’t kill you but cause you to take the long way around. As an exercise, think about people in your own life who you avoid and why. Is it possible that someone is inadvertently using this same level of manipulation on you?
I did some introspection and realized that I recently did this to a Mennonite bishop. I made him use up so much cognitive dissonance energy that he literally walked quickly away from me without a word. I watched the wheels in his brain turning and the moment he realized I was right. He would have to do something very painful if he did not immediately forget what I had said. So he ran. Now he avoids me. Maybe a few more dry runs and I will be ready for a state trooper someday.
